How to respond when a mentee asks for an introduction
Your mentee asks you to introduce them to someone in your network without explaining the purpose.
What they might say
- “Could you introduce me to your contact at that company?”
- “I just want to pick their brain.”
- “You know them, so I thought I'd ask.”
What's usually behind it
They may see access as the next step without having a clear request yet. Clarifying the purpose helps them prepare and helps you judge whether an introduction makes sense.
What you can say
- Let's get clear on the purpose before I reach out.
- What would you hope to learn or move forward through that conversation?
- If it looks like a fit, I'll check whether they're open to an introduction.
Try not to
- Promising an introduction before understanding the request.
- Sharing contact details without permission.
How Earshot helps in the moment
Earshot listens live, shows one short card with a suggested clarifying line, and nudges you on pace before you commit.
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